Keep Posting the Good on Facebook: Their Negativity Has Nothing to Do With You

Do you ever have people in your Facebook feed (or even real life) who claim that the people who only post positive things are pretending their life is perfect? This has baffled me for years. I could not wrap my head around why it would bother somebody that a friend shares only positive things.  I finally think I understand. In my … Continue Reading...

Not Parenting and Understanding That Children are People are Two Different Things

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Okay. There are lazy parents. There are parents who don't know what to do so they do nothing. There are parents who just plain don't feel like dealing, so they don't. There are parents who are trying to make up for something so they say "yes" to everything in an attempt to do so. None of these are gentle parenting. None of these are Unschooling. … Continue Reading...

Unschooling Chat #3 with Jennifer McGrail of The Path Less Taken

These chats keep getting better and better! I am so grateful to Jen for taking time to share her experience and wisdom with us. You can view our 3rd Unshooling Chat here: Here is access to audio only: … Continue Reading...

Best Hotel Pool United States: My Vote

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I don't usually vote publicly on things like this but for this I had to. Check out what gets my vote for Best Hotel Pool United States!  My 7 year old, 9 year old, husband and I were equally excited to check our the brand new Marriott Marquis Houston. We looked at the website. We ogled the pictures. We wondered how they could have a lazy river … Continue Reading...

5 Reasons to Attend the Free to Be Unschooling Conference

I don't know about you, but when I hear the word "conference" I think: huge time commitment, a lot of wasted time between sessions, and a lot of sessions that are not great. Almost 4 years ago though, I knew my family needed to be enveloped in the Unschooling life, so when I was asked to speak at the first annual Free to Be, I immediately responded … Continue Reading...

What is Unschooling? Q&A with Jennifer McGrail of The Path Less Taken

So often we see Unschooling misrepresented. There is no membership card and yes, you can do whatever you want with your own children. This is not for you. This is for people who are seeking the Unschooling life- for those who want to learn the  mindset and how it works in everyday life. Some get frustrated off the bat because there is no … Continue Reading...

Picking Children Up Against Their Will: One Mother’s Lesson

Picking a Child Up Against Their Will

Before we knew better, my husband and I would pick our then 2 (ish) year old daughter up and bring her wherever we wanted her to go. I mean hey- we only had so much time to get where we "needed" her to be. Sydney would defy and protest. She was steadfast in her resolve to continue whatever play she was involved in. My husband and I would … Continue Reading...

People Are Good: 5 Actions That Prove It

People Are Good: 5 Actions that Prove It

People are good. Not everybody is good, but most people are. Yes, we all have a lot of stuff we need to face. We have a lot of accountability we need to accept. We have a lot of work we need to do to make this world, and the US better. I do not believe it starts by "choosing love". I believe it starts with action. Here are 5 beautiful … Continue Reading...

Children are People and Have Preferences- Just Like You and Me!

Children are People and Have Preferences Just Like you and Me

One of the things that I am grateful for as an adult, is that I can make things the way I like them. I prefer brothy soup for example, so when I make soup, I make sure it is extra-brothy, so I can enjoy it. I like a blanket over my lap when I am reading a book, or watching TV, so I always make sure we have a clean blanket in our living … Continue Reading...

5 Reasons I Love Unschooling

5 Reasons I Love #Unschooling by Jennifer Andersen OurMuddyBoots.com

Though this is not (like ever, in a million years) a path I expected to be on, I have fallen in love with the Unschooling life. We are still very much learning and I still have a long way to go. Rather than talking about my mistakes and successes, or how much better life is now, today I want to share 5 (ish) reasons I love Unschooling. There … Continue Reading...

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