5 Posts about Respecting Our Children

After last weeks post about Bullying, parents are asking for another way. How do we change? How do we learn to respect our children instead of coerce them? There are two follow up pieces to “Are we Bullying Our Children” coming.  For now, here are 5 posts about respecting children that may help you get started.

5 posts about gentle disciplineHow Not to Treat Children: “I have never taken an entire blog post to share a you tube video before, but this one is that good and that important! I am also including a couple of links to pieces that remind us that children are people!”

5 Changes I have Made for My Children: “It is easy for us parents to get caught in a rut; we know what we do not want to do, but what can we do to make things better with our children? Here are 5 Changes I have made for my children.”

Reconsidering Praise, Shame, and Punishment: Knowing More to Do Better: “A collection of articles for Reconsidering Sharing, Praise, Capability, and Punishing.”

Quick Start Guide: Rethinking Discipline: “Alternatives to Punishment, Living by Principles Instead of Rules and exploring what’s wrong with time outs, this is a collection of articles useful for learning to parent respectfully.”

Quick Start Guide: Living Respectfully with Children: “Learning to treat children with respect will require a change of heart, that can come only from a major shift in consciousness of how we view children and how we define respect.”

Are we Bullying Our Children?

Bullying

What if our efforts to stop bullying are misguided? What if the real solution comes long before our children enter school or set foot on a playground? What if bullying comes from us? Many will be up in arms at this suggestion. They will quickly dismiss it as asinine. They will cite all sorts of studies that tell us all sorts of ways to prevent … Continue Reading...

Creative Ice Cream Cones: Beat the Heat Activity Idea

Beat the Heat #ChooseSmart Our Muddy Boots

We have recently moved to the desert of Arizona, and it is getting HOT!  This New England girl is having a tough time adjusting to the new climate (and from what I hear I ain't seen nothin' yet!)  We are also still just getting to know people, so the kids and I have a lot of time together, just us three.  I loved the idea of having the kids … Continue Reading...

Circle of Moms Episode: Talking to your Kids about Weight, Planning Birthday Parties, and Bringing Home Baby #2

Bringing home Baby #2

It is nice to see the message that children will "do as we do" touted by mainstream media. The latest video from Circle of Moms by POPSUGAR talks about weight, planning birthday parties, and the impact of bringing home baby #2 on older children. I was nervous to watch this.  I was sure that controlling children would be the focus of all … Continue Reading...

Do what you want for Mother’s Day

There are lots of people who want us to spend Mother's Day their way, but do what you want for Mother's Day! As usual, commercials, restaurants, and jewelry stores are trying to convince us of what we want (read: what they want us to want) for Mother's Day.  Even when we are good at tuning out the messages, they can impact us and lead us away … Continue Reading...

A Real Baby Boy Almost Lost his Life to Circumcision

Know better

Shared by an anonymous author with permission from Parents Overcoming Deception. I am not a doctor but I have a story to share. This is not a story about some random dude. This is a story about my son. A curly red headed boy who gives the best hugs and has the most delightful giggle. A boy that is madly in love with his brothers and sisters. A … Continue Reading...

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